Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Marriage is an institution that was originated by God. If God is not in your marriage, you can try but it may not work.
What must we do?
The major step in marriage is that we must come into Christ and stay in Christ.
When you are resident in Christ, the fruits of the Spirit will manifest through you and your partner too will come into Christ and stay in Christ.
Gal 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
Immediately the two of you are resident in Christ, the radiation of love will start to emit from the throne of Grace into your life and family.
Once that starts, joy will follow and peace will take residence in your home.
Jesus brings PEACE INTO BROKEN MARRIAGES.